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Tuesday, November 10, 2009
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Janet Cates remembered for contrasts

A car crash on Card Sound Road just after midnight Saturday ended the life of Key West resident Janet Cates, whose journey through the past three decades took her from politics, to partying and prison to a mature and settled skin care professional known for her generosity and outgoing nature.

Cates, 56, died when her 2004 Mini Cooper skidded off the road, spun around and crashed into multiple trees and shrubs, according to Florida Highway Patrol reports. Her passenger, Lee Ann DePalma, was injured in the crash and taken to Jackson Memorial Hospital, where she was in critical condition Monday.

The two were on their way to a trade show for skin care professionals on the mainland.

Cates, who once ran for mayor of Key West but was no relation to Mayor Craig Cates, was a licensed aesthetician who worked at All About You day spa. An aesthetician works with skin and skin care products, massage, aromatherapy, facials, makeup application and hair removal.

"She picked it up and ran with it, and with her personality she was a perfect fit here because she knew absolutely everybody," said spa owner Nadine Toriello, who first hired Cates in 2002.

Cates went to work in a medical spa in 2007 and learned other skin care services, but returned to All About You just three weeks ago as a licensed aesthetician.

Toriello recalled her friend was an avid Elvis Presley fan.

"She had a life-size cutout of Elvis at her house, and the three men in her life were Elvis, her late husband, Michael, and Andre Agassi -- probably in that order," Toriello said.

She said Cates had an easy way with people and was able to put them at ease.

"She was still putting her treatment room together for facials and it was a major homecoming for all of us," said Toriello. "You didn't meet Janet without becoming her friend. Within five minutes, she knew all of your vital information and would remember it; you were not just a passing acquaintance. A kinder, more generous soul, you will not find. She truly gave everything she had."

Renee Spencer, a licensed massage therapist, remembers being homeless after the storm surge from Hurricane Wilma devastated her Big Coppitt Key home.

"I literally had nowhere else to go and she gave me a place to live," Spencer said. "As goofy and kooky as Janet could be, she had a heart of gold."

Toriello acknowledged Cates' party-girl persona in her younger days, "but in the 10 years I've known her, she was a real homebody," she said.

The party ended for Cates in 1985, when she was sentenced to 10 years in prison on federal racketeering and cocaine trafficking charges that stemmed from the now-infamous Bubba Bust. Also arrested and imprisoned in that scandal were former Deputy Police Chief Raymond Casamayor; two Key West police detectives; Cates' late husband, Michael, who was a local attorney; and seven others.

The Bubba Bust is not to be confused with Operation Conch, which took place in 1976 and resulted in the arrest of then-Fire Chief Joseph "Bum" Farto on marijuana and cocaine charges.

"That was an unfortunate time that she got pulled into," Toriello said. "Since I've known her, Janet was just a crazy, rock 'n' roll soul whose generosity knew no limits."

Family and friends are preparing a private memorial service. Donations may be made in her name to the Florida Keys SPCA.

mbolen@keysnews.com

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For our beloved "Aunt Janet" Cates

She was a force to be reckoned with! She was smart, funny, embracing, stubborn, and most importantly your friend. She had made many mistakes in the past, as we all have, and was a role model on giving back to the community. She had many, many, close friends, but none of us could ever fill the void she felt with the passing of her husband Michael. I am at peace with passing because I know she is with her husband, and there is no other place on heaven or earth she would rather be. She has touched and changed our lives forever. God bless her parents and family to have strength through these trying times.

Lee Ann DePalma- Ryder Trauma Unit

Janet has passed. Lee Ann was almost killed. Lee Ann is 28. Lee Ann's life before her, Cerebral Palsy from birth, these compounding the other life difficulties for her, now a crushed chest breathing on a ventilator, severe pelvic injury affecting her back. The doctors, hospital, the bills, insurance hastels, physical therapy, may go on for 2 years for her. Maybe she never really heals from this magnitude of injury. She lost her friend. What a traumatic event, her friend died and Lee Ann was so hurt, she couldn't hug Janet when she died or call an ambulance for help. Can we look at this from another perspective? Lee Ann is healing. She needs prayers, friends and a job after she heals. Lee Ann's father lives in the Keys, and Lee Ann is in the Jackson Memorial Hospital the Ryder Trauma Unit. Are there kind souls in Key West who would help Lee Ann after she returns, perhaps? Would someone send her a card, just to help her feel safe, and feel that people do care for someone who survived a trauma (this not unlike battle or war). She needs support to heal and regain her enthusiasm for life, which has been shaken. We can offer Lee Ann joy, and support. We cannot be judgmental of Janet, we may extend care for Lee Ann. Janet would extend her hand to Lee Ann.

4 more surgeries

Lee Ann DePalma needs your prayers, due to infection, she had surgery three times this week, almost a month after the accident. Reading the comments of anger for Janet in this article, can transform to become care and support for Lee Ann. She may appreciate a card, or letter, a surgery may be scheduled for the injury to her back, soon.

Lee Ann

I am glad that this comment was posted, because unfortunately all that were close to Janet and is giving support do not know the passenger. Lee Ann - And her family : I am so sorry, because none of us knew how to contact you, how many prayers and wishes are going out to you during your time of distress. We did not know the extent of injuries, etc. We only knew that you were a friend of Janet's we all had not met. And we knew how devastated Janet would be to think she had hurt someone else. I will be sending my encouragements up to Jackson Memorial, and pass on the information to everyone else I know. Patti Child

Thank you for the update

Several people have expressed concern about the passenger who was with Janet and how she was doing. Janet would have wanted less about Janet and more well wishes to LeeAnn. My heart and well wishes are out to her family, along with prayers.

AMEN

Amen

Janet Hill Cates

If you had the pleasure of having Janet as a friend, you had a friend indeed. Her type of giving friendship was the kind of friendship that was not just to good times, but she made her presence known in the bad days of life also. I KNOW JANET'S PRESENCE HERE IN OUR COMMUNITY WILL BE GREATLY MISSED. I am honored to call her a friend of ours. Doris & Ricky Arnold

Umm, she was a drug smuggler

Umm, she was a drug smuggler back in the day. This article mentioned it, but actually soft pedaled it. Everyone here is making her out for sainthood. Don't do the crime........

YO dude my dad said she brought in the best weed!

Sounds like you need to toke a few bob marleys to calm down dude! Don't be so negative! Key West made it's fortune on the backs of good people like her. Next thing you will say is that weed is a bad thing Dude! Cool!

In loving memory of Janet Hill Cates

Janet was an amazing woman. She was a true and loyal friend to me. She was there for me when many were not. I shared tears with her as well as lots of laughs. I had so much fun with her. She was honest, generous, extremely loyal any hysterically funny. I admired her zest for life and bubbly personality. There will never be another like her thats for sure. I think it was tacky of the citizen to write about the bubba bust. Janet would never want to be remembered for that. She paid her dues and moved on with her life. She would be very hurt to see that printed today. She contributed so much to this community and touched so many lives in a positive way. I love you Janet and you are in my heart always. Kelly Knowles

Janet's Own Words

National Enquirer has confirmed several Elvis sightings at my house. They have contacted me on many occasions to see if he would do an interview, but he just stands there and won't talk to them. (This show’s Janet’s humor – Elvis is a life size cardboard cut out.)

So sad!

Janet was a kind woman with a good heart. I haven't seen her in many years, but thanks to the internet we shared fun e-mails, spiritual ones, and notes from time to time in order to catch up. I'm so sorry to hear of this tragedy. Her presence will surely be missed. I know I shall never forget her! Donna Atkinson, Haskell, NJ. stilld2e@aol.com

Contrast???

Janet Cates is remembered for contrast??? I conpletely disagree. Janet will always be remembered for being a kind, caring and loyal person. May she rest in peace.

In memory

I guess the Citizen thinks the only way they'll get readership is by scandalizing. Even scandalizing in someone's tragic death. You, Tom Tuell, and your staff, should be ashamed!! Janet Cates received and served her punishment. It is over. It was over two and a half decades ago! Clearly the Citizen is making lame attempts to tie in a past Conch scandal just in case there is anyone living on the island now who hadn't heard about the convictions 20+ years ago! Then, to bring in a completely unrelated conviction from 1976, when Janet was a practically still a child, is embarassing to your so-called newspaper at best, and just blatant hostility toward Conchs at worst. Had this been an article about Ms. Cates getting rearrested, then the past convictions would have been related news. In an article about her untimely death, the convictions do nothing but bring out your yellow journalism. I didn't know Janet all that well, but I do know that every time she saw me she genuinely inquired about my well being and my families' well-being. She was a kind, generous, caring soul, as was her late husband, Michael, who you also chose to trash one last time. Janet leaves behind 3 step-children and a dear mother. They're hurting; have some compassion Citizen staff, since clearly you have no class. Monica Matthews Santana, Key West Conch, Tampa, Florida

The Citizen article didn't seem the least bit...

...disrespectful, and in fact was rather kind to her. The Herald's story, on the other hand, was exactly the opposite. I didn't know Janet, and I'll take her friends' word for it that she was a good and kind person. The drug conviction was a part of her life's story, and believe it or not, not all of us think it was necessarily such a horrible thing. But it was a part of who she was, and its mention was not inappropriate in the least.

I agree with Monica

From someone that has known Janet for many years - Janet was one of the kindest people on the island of Key West...that's why she got caught up in the sting.

we read the same article

We read the same article but with different eyes. I thought it was totally appropriate. I didn't know Janet but after reading Ms. Bolen's story I feel I understand a woman that was a Key Wester and had Key West experiences not unlike many of her peers. She went on to be a generous friend and asset to the community. I am sure i would have liked her. You should take a breath, relax. And reread the article with an open mind, not one that is suspicious of anything or everything reported about a Conch.

bringing in others

Throughout all of the recent "conch" scandal (note Monique is NOT a Conch), I have not replied or posted as I feel some are hypersensitive and feel others are out to get the Conchs. I also feel that many lump all Conchs together as being of one sort of mindset, which they most definitely are not. Conchs are known for their individuality to be sure. Unfortunately, part of Janet's legacy will be her drug conviction and time served. Time served. As in over, as in done with, as in time served. No one asked for her to be canonized, but certainly her lowest point in life doesn't have to be brought up for her mourners to recall. Most certainly, the lowest points in the lives of others and their names doesn't have to be brought up. And more certainly than that, the lowest point in a life of someone that had no connection to Janet whatsoever from a conviction a decade before hers. The Citizen made their point of yellow journalism. If it was just "reporting the factual news", there would have been a mere mention of the jail time. Instead, they had to throw in the cliche names of the bust(s) and then all of the names of the Conch arrestees.

I agree with you. A person is the sum of their lifetime

experiences and that should be the story. Those who go around canonizing anyone who's passed away are doing no one any favors. They're not honoring the life and the accomplishments and obstacles that the deceased overcame if they don't look at the negatives as well.

My sister is one of the worst! Once someone dies, they immediately become saints in her eyes. I find this to be a hypocritical way to look at life.

This is about Janet, not your sister!

It's obvious that you are the hypocrite!

Hardly. It just shows though, that you are not able to see the

value of someone who has overcome adversity. If dying cleanses you of your sins, then I guess that you admire Mr. A. Hitler or Mr. Saddam Hussein, right? Ms. Cates did a good thing when she moved forward and grew out of her past problems. Clearly you don't think it's so great so that doesn't make you much of a friend. You have to realize that when one does something illegal, one will pay for it forever. That would make most people think twice about committing crimes.

janet cates

Why dont you put this in her funeral services you LAME SOB..let the lady rest in peace... The past is the Past

A Wonderful Person!

It is truly sad not that they recalled her life experiences for it made her the strong, determined, loving and compassionate person she was. The headlines used to describe this horrific event was truly unfair and without compassion. It is unfortunate that people comment on things or people they no nothing about. Lori Salter

Janet Cates

They did not print the negative information in the funeral services because the family writes the obiturary and plus the family has to pay for it too! REST IN PEACE, JANET! We have all made our share of mistakes in our life times. And some learn from their mistakes,like Janet, and some don't. DO NOT JUDGE ANYONE!

You're not doing justice to your friend w/ that type of comment.

The past might be the past, but it's really worthwhile to note that she overcame great adversity. It made her stronger and a better person. That's a GOOD thing.

a person is the sum of their lifetime experiences

thank you for saying that. your 2 paragraphs said what i hoped to and more. reporting the conviction only shows that this person really got her life together afterward. and that says alot about the character of someone.

Sad

I wholeheartedly agree with the above comment. While I never knew Janet the entire time I was reading this article I couldn't understand the reason for rehashing a past conviction when there was absolutely no tie-in to her death. You could have found so many more positive aspects that defined her life since that time. Ms. Bolen, I assume you went to journalism school but the fact you have to masquerade as a writer for this paper says volumes about you.

tie-in

the conviction had "absolutely no tie in to her death" but it did have a tie-in to her life. fortunately this is how news is reported in this country. it was a fair news report. it wasn't in the obituary column where the conviction need not be mentioned.

friendofJanet's

Thank you Ms. Bolen and the Citizen for your (not so negative) report on Janet. Although you pointed out the drug conviction 25 years ago, you didn't dwell on it. It's not, and should not be, an issue as it had nothing to do what Janet became. Janet paid her debt to society and the only person she hurt was herself. Janet was a wonderful and loving person who had a way of making a person feel like they were the only person in her life. She was giving, gracious, and truly knew how to put one at ease. Her death has left a void in so many hearts. Yes, Card Sound is a hard road to drive, especially at night. Perhaps she swayed to miss a Florida Panther ... (or a Miami Herald Reporter). Janet didn't have it in her to be unkind. In any event, a mother, step-mother, grand-step-mother, and many others have lost a special friend. Mrs. Hall and friends, please accept my condolances. You can be left with the satisfaction that Janet became an outstanding member of the Community. Janet would not want people to dwell on her, but send well wishes to her passenger and we all pray that she will be okay.

janet hill cates

Janet, I will never forget the times when my mom and dad "Max and Jo-Ann Broadbent" and my sisters "Lee-Ann and April" and I spent so many great, fun times with you and the family. My mom and dad loved you so much you were a part of our family. I remember so many great times at Christmas when we went to Mike and Janet's house on Key Haven. I remember other times when my family went there and all us kids fished off the dock with smelly cheese. But these memories will always be in my heart. I also remember when Janet came to our house and apologized so much for the stuff she was going through in her life before she went to prison. My mom and dad never made her feel like she was a bad person they just let her know that she had to stop that life and they never stopped loving her and they never gave up hope on her. I remember she wrote us from prison and I still have a picture of her in a store that she had when she was in a half-way house. Everyone needs to stop remembering the bad things people go thru but yet they change there life around and come out good......and start reflecting on the good that these peoplen did.(my mom and dad "Max and Jo-Ann Broadbent")taught me that!!! I went thru a tough time when Mike Cates died but my dad reassured me that god picks his angels and he said that for sure Mike was in the best place called "Heaven", I still remember that when I was crying at Grace Lutheran Church. Believe me I know that Janet Hill Cates is up there with OUR LORD!!! Both Mike and Janet Cates were great people!! Love you Janet!!!!! I will always cherish the memories. Claudine Broadbent Sweeting

FOND MEMORIES OF JANET CATES!

Janet was a wonderful,kind,caring,generous person. I first met Janet back in the 80's after Michael had passed away. She wanted to write a Memorial for Michael and she told me that she did not know what to say or how to say it. She asked me for my help. So we both sat down in her Key Haven home and together wrote Michael's Memorial. It was beautiful. From that time forward, we remained friends. She was always concerned about eveyone else. Rarely, talking about her life. I feel very blessed and honored to have been the one to sit down with Janet and create that Memorial for Michael and found just a true and kind friend. There is more good that Janet has done than bad. No one should be throwing dirt at her in the announcement of her death. She does not deserve it.. Love and Peace to you Janet. May God Bless You and Keep You! Karen Lee Hirst

Janet Hill Cates

Rest in peace with the Angels. My condolences to Louise Hall the mother. I truly know how you feel as I lost my daughter.GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. JOANN VALENZUELA ALISON

Fond Memories

Check your dates. Michael was still alive in the early 80's.

CORRECTION: year of Memorial

So sorry, the Memorial for Michael was in the 90's with Janet. Sorry for the mistake. Thanks for the correction.

JANET HILL CATES

RIP MY DEAR FRIEND. JANET WILL BE GREATLY MISSED . MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO MISS WEEZIE AND THE REST OF THE FAMILY. I HAD THE PLEASURE OF KNOWING AND BEING HER FRIEND SINCE OUR HIGH SCHOOL DAYS AND HAVE KEPT IN TOUCH THROUGH THE YEARS, I WILL CERTAINLY MISS HER . IRMA

Disgusted with the Citizen

This is why so many of my friends and associates has all decided to stop our subscriptions to this periodical! Kick them when they're down. That's what this newspaper does best. KARMA IS A B*TCH.... If I want to read smut news I'll buy one of those rag mags in the supermarket!!

Ummm...if you want to read 'happy news' get the Conch Color rag.

Then you can see all your fat Bubba buddies drinking and having a good time and usually inappropriately dressed.

News is news, people. This was a very balanced piece and to be honest, the Citizen didn't even have to write a thing on this subject, since many are killed every day in similar accidents. However, they chose to honor this woman with a rundown on her life and how she overcame adversity.

And to let you know, many of my friends and associates have now subscribed to the Citizen since they began reporting REAL news. In the past, they'd pick up a paper every now and then. Now? It's delivered either online or in their yards. I'm betting the Citizen's circulation has increased dramatically since March.

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